left out activities

1. christmas carol service in coventry cathedral!
2. watching friends playing piano is an enjoyment
3. flute playing
4. anime watching (as always =p)

Recent activitis

although i would like to write in chinese, but due to time limitation, i should just write in English.
In this holidays, there were many sweet sweet memories that i really want to keep in my heart.

1. Skiing Trip to Val D'Isere : Ferry trip from Dover, coach trip all the way to Snow Mountain, view on the snow mountain, Learning ski from sifu, accident ski route from middle hill all the way down the mountain - going through tunnel, the two falling down with a dear friend besides me making me smile, the route where sifu teaches me how to balance my body during skiing, the meals during the trip, shopping trips before the trip etc
2. Cycling to coventry - eating the subway sandwich, bike broken and end up with walking back
3. Trip to Birmingham German Market - trying the mulled wine, observing a cool friend buying a present
4. Christmas meals: articulate, traditional christmas, the chat over meal, the short talk on history of king lineage of England and Europe, christmas presents opening and photo taking
5. 'Study camp' with friends : the cooking together, massaging, piano learning,playing violin pose photo taking, foot massaging, learning of massaging, badminton playing, swimming, tesco&Asda shopping trip, church going, nodame drama series watching, those chats, those

there are still many in my hearts. how i wish i have video and capture every moment of my life. What a blessing that i have, Thank you my Daddy God. =)
love you always

24 日

尤记得曾经每一年的今天，我都会出席一场音乐会。
而且是日本人的音乐会。好怀念过去的日子，因为那时的天真无邪，那时的朋友余余。
今年，我托朋友之福，也会出席一场音乐会。而且是合唱团和弦乐团的合演。但是，不同的是，它其实不应该被称为音乐会。因该是一个圣诞前夕的一个崇拜。
我想，我会期待今天的下午。
最近，温习的进度实在是令人失望。但是，我可以选择积极面对。希望，可以在进步多一些。终于，决定，下一个学期不会拿多科。而下学期，玩乐之余，也会努力温习第一学期的东西，因为时日无多，四月就大考。

差不多，新的一年又要到了。看见每个人都在检讨及思考新的一年的愿望及目标，我是否也因该想想呢？或许吧。今天，将会有两个小时的空闲时间，或许是好时机哦。

圣诞节的礼物

今早，一起身就看见桌上摆放了礼物，是给我的。

送礼者很细心，将礼物藏在圣诞卡的后面，让圣诞卡突出。我是看见了圣诞卡，才看见礼物的。好感动。

这不是我的第一份礼物。也不是我的第一份圣诞礼物。

还不晓得礼物是什么。受到时，就不是很想开启。不是因为我想拒绝那礼物，而是，我想将礼物还完美的在礼物的包装里时，珍惜它。包装一被开启时，总觉得好像失去了那因为神秘而来的完美。是我想太多，但是，总享受那种认为完美的感觉。

 

好久没有blog了。今天姑且写多一些。今天和朋友网上聊天，靠开心。忘了有多久我们没有见面，开心地聊天。我中三的同桌朋友，好想你。好想念我们曾经拥有的日子。知道吗，在你面前，我总可以毫无掩饰地表达自己。没有尴尬，没有害羞，只有诚心只为了分享而分享。

靜觀其變

昨天,跟朋友出去買滑雪必需品

這應該不是我的第一次早上九點許出門購物,但絕對是第一次在英國這麼做

很珍惜和朋友的這一趟購物

原先,我真的有點埋怨我的朋友

因為男裝部在樓上,女裝部在樓下,他們一到那兒時,就撇下我上樓去了

不過,過了一會兒,我倒覺得其實被撇下,或許不是很差

自己也開始慢慢地看不同的褲子,慢慢地研究

從褲子到手套,滑雪鏡,帽子到看了,但是還是沒有試穿任何衣物

後來,朋友下來了一會兒,然後才開始試穿

終於決定了幾便宜,又比較合身的褲子

在英國啊,能和我身的畢竟不多,希望那件褲子能耐穿(因為有些便宜)

其實,有時候,真不知道,自己想要怎樣

但是,我想我的耐性又增加了,最近發覺自己少了立即發脾氣,而是會沉着一下,靜觀其變

塞翁失馬,焉知非福

和朋友之間又多了一番回憶

這是我目前每一天要珍惜及感恩的

Lost and Found

Lately, a lot of things has happened. I had lost my badminton racket last wednesday. Lately, I have been very careless. Left a lot of things behind. Sometimes, left my bible behind at home on the way to church; left my bible or something else behind after fellowship time; and i left badminton racket behind after attending lecture. I remember somebody said to me :" you have to be more careful, i cant always help you to take notice of your things. I might not in time to help you to collect." Actually what he meant is good. I knew that he was being kind and reminding to me. However, I was a little frustrated mainly maybe due to had been condemning myself all the time just before my friend speak that to me. I guess he was speaking it in other time, I would not got frustrated. Sometimes i find fear really creates anger, agitation, frustration in my heart. If i wasn't fear and been always condemn myself being a burden to people around me, i will not be so frustrated. Anyway, i do want to apologize for my friends that sometimes i could not just react quickly enough. I find that my reaction time is always slow, especially towards emotion management. I always need some time to digest before i can choose a suitable reaction towards a case. That will often much longer after the incident. Part of the reasons that i can remember very well what had happened in the past so clearly, i guess is because i do really always ponder about a case over and over again. Even just a short conversation with my friends. Anyway, i am glad that my friends who know me really understand me. May you guys allow me some time to adjust and to learn to overcome this. I sincerely thank all of you. Lastly, i should mention that, i have finally found my racket. It was handed over to Math general office. Praise God!

Nice article.. haha

I seldom read forward email. But lately i read some and this is one of those who attracts me and entertains me a bit. =) :

可以給你老公看,以後你也可以跟你兒子這麼說 .. .....　（寫的真好）

 
 

曾在廣播裡听到 ,當孩子頂嘴甚至步入叛逆期時的因應之道 
做媽媽的總是嘮叨 ,有一次已經高中的兒子不耐煩的頂撞了母親 , 母親氣得半死。 
做父親的便約兒子一起出門散步。兩人走了好久 , 父親一路上不發一語 , 兒子納悶。 一直到要進家門口時 , 父親拍拍兒子的肩膀, 以男人對男人的語氣說 : 
『等一下進去時 , 給我女人一點面子 !』 
兒子驚讶於老爸用哥兒們的語氣對他說話 ,並因男人跟男人之間的義氣 , 從此對母親畢恭畢敬的。 
所以 , 有的時候 , 父親這個角色還是頗重要的 ! 
當我的小孩頂撞我時，我想告訴他，下列的事任選一樣，做到後，才有頂撞的權利： 

 

 

1. 連續3 個月每吃完一餐就須催吐 (孕吐) 
2. 乳頭被別人吸到破皮達一個月 (餵奶) 
3. 肚子塞一顆籃球達 10 個月 ( 懷孕) 
4. 接受皮鞭抽打達 48 小時 (生小孩) 
5. 10 個月不能喝冰水、咖啡、茶 
6. 5個月睡覺不能翻身 
7. 10 個月不能出遊遠行，不能跑跳 
8. 10個月不能生病，要不，生病不能吃藥 
9. 至育嬰室把屎把尿一個月 
10. 晚上睡覺每二個小時起床一次，清醒30 分鐘達一個月 

 

 

寫完上述
10 項，我覺得當娘的真不是人幹的。 
想起一個高中同學他說：有一次頂撞母親，父親把他從椅子上踹下來，斥責他: 
你媽是我捧在手心的寶，我呵護她，照顧她，對她輕聲細語，你憑什麼對他大小聲!!! 
我的同學再也不敢頂撞母親了。 
><~好感動，尤其是最後一句是經典。 
男人們丫，如果你們真的愛、疼你老婆（女朋友）記得這句話就夠了！ 
老婆是拿來疼的，所以千錯萬錯都是自己的錯，不服氣嗎？誰叫你當初追人家。 
當媽的如果听到老公這麼說，應該會很高興吧！男人要學著點...

Strive to enter the rest

In this rat racing society, sometimes i became one of the rat. I forgot again and again that it is really futile to become the first in the race. Indeed, i am not able to and it takes a lot of time and energy to deal with it. 

I would go over and over again to think why do I have such results which I do not deserved rather than give thanks for the blessings. 

I would go over and over again to think why am I so not able to do my assignments rather than give thanks for being able to study abroad (which used to be unreachable, unspeakable dream)

I would go over and over again to think that my future is hopeless because I do not know what I want now rather than give thanks for the present. I have friends around me who are lovely, friends in different places in this world who concerns about me, friends who I can hang out with...)

Truly, knowing and believing is different. I had known to strive/labour/be diligently enter the rest, but I never realized it when I was not in rest. Thank God that He is able to pull me back and speak to me always in a loving way. I want to learn to enter the rest.

一笑人间万事

暑假结束了...以前，我根本不会用这句话。因为无从用啊。
刚过的暑假，我去了满多地方，也是这个暑假让我做了一个影响我现在生活满多的决定。

这一次，我去了台湾。一个原本不是在我计划内的地点。
然，我很开心。认识了相当多的朋友。之后，去了闻名（才发现文明是一样读音，香港也文明，可以弄
“双关” =p ）的香港。香港之旅中也抽空去了澳门。去了三个地方后，才有机会踏入心爱的槟城 （用汉语拼音打是，居然它给我“冰城“,哈哈)。在之后，便是新加坡之旅，回英国收拾房间/屋子，参加营会及英国之旅。就这样，整个行程一直到9月28日才结束。

回想发生过的一切一切，我有发现，也有感想。
首先，发现自己非常非常糊涂。尤其在这三个月。糊涂的程度简直是像叫人不敢相信。从英国出发当天就让巴士跑了。感恩的是在短宣时，我没那么糊涂。但是，短宣一结束，又开始了，竟然把自己及队长的圣经留在嘉义而自己与队友却北上去。之后，去香港时，也是一样，小事就别说了，本姑娘居然把重要的海报留在香港朋友家。明明离开前，自己还记得的。回到家，却发现没在旅行袋中。再说，后来在新加坡临上飞机前一天，发现自己的照相机内没有记忆卡。除此之外，还有买错巴士票给朋友，浪费了廿八镑。还有，好多好多糊涂事。望以后我可以再进步。

很开心，俐佳过来英国。跟她一起旅行很开心。她相当完美，真的很欣赏她。所以，我觉得黄先生好幸福哦。后来回想起，朱某以及许某的事，发觉还好许某没有害惨别人。应该进步的还有很多。

暑假时，读了一本书。从而真的对数学有了那么一点点的热忱。有时，真的啼笑皆非，未免吃了些吧。但是，还是很希望可以认识数学更多。数学，有意思！我要加油加油！大三可不容易，我绝不可以掉以轻心。

还有，这次的假期，真的很想再次练好钢琴。以前，真的不知道为了什么练琴。看了交响情人梦之后，真的让我再次向往会弹钢琴的感觉。暑假也发现，我应该暂时专注学习一、两样专长，而不应该囫囵吞枣似地学习。要不然，届时肯定要吃不消的。

英国之旅让我再花更多钱。几乎是自己的全副积蓄。但是，收获也不错。可以探望朋友，可以更认识充满着古典味道的英国。

终于开学了，今天有点不知怎么的，心里就是五味参杂。很开心可以再次见到久违了的朋友。一些我很的很珍惜的朋友。但是，发现原来，自己是那么渺小。
很多时候，在这个不断追逐的世界里，我真的感到很累。就今天而言，我真的很累。但是，我不可以放弃。我要活在当下。今天可以完成什么，就今天完成吧。

就是在这个时候，我很喜欢想辛弃疾的 '白发空垂三千丈，一笑人间万事‘。有人说过，他很悲观。但是，我却又另一个领会。无论你追逐成或败，终有一天，当你看会今天，你也只不过那么一笑带过。何必伤心，何必不开心，何必担心，何必苦恼...数年后，微笑总结一切。　　

今天,就是在忙搬東西,整理東西

中午,朋友請了我吃一頓豐富的午餐,然後我們一起去見另一個將要離開英國的朋友

我比較享受寫中文,所以,很固執地,都寫中文

因為我覺得中文比較能表達我心裡所想的,所要表達的

其實,我不是部落客燒友,　

今天會有新增也是因為在blog.spot開了一個部落

最近,在培養自己去讀部落

很久沒有天天閱讀的習慣了

以往,一早起來,就會期待6點以前就會在我家出現的報紙

我還記得,我那時是中三開始的

每天都會讀散文或者小說

對,我很少讀新聞

那時,我想,放學之後,3點多才會做的事

中四及中五時,常常遲歸家,到家已經是7點半了

就連7點的連續劇都沒得看,自然新聞,就更少看了

就是,不知道為甚麼,我不太愛看新聞

或許,新聞很多事候都會報導一些人性醜惡的一面,亦或許我從來沒有這個習慣吧

無論如何,我還是希望做回自己

順其自然吧