Saturday, 25 October 2008

Nice article.. haha

I seldom read forward email. But lately i read some and this is one of those who attracts me and entertains me a bit. =) :


可以給你老公看,以後你也可以跟你兒子這麼說 .. ..... (寫的真好)
 
 

曾在廣播裡听到 ,當孩子頂嘴甚至步入叛逆期時的因應之道 
做媽媽的總是嘮叨 ,有一次已經高中的兒子不耐煩的頂撞了母親 , 母親氣得半死。 
做父親的便約兒子一起出門散步。兩人走了好久 , 父親一路上不發一語 , 兒子納悶。 一直到要進家門口時 , 父親拍拍兒子的肩膀, 以男人對男人的語氣說 : 
『等一下進去時 , 給我女人一點面子 !』 
兒子驚讶於老爸用哥兒們的語氣對他說話 ,並因男人跟男人之間的義氣 , 從此對母親畢恭畢敬的。 
所以 , 有的時候 , 父親這個角色還是頗重要的 ! 

當我的小孩頂撞我時,我想告訴他,下列的事任選一樣,做到後,才有頂撞的權利: 
 
 

1. 連續3 個月每吃完一餐就須催吐 (孕吐) 
2. 乳頭被別人吸到破皮達一個月 (餵奶) 
3. 肚子塞一顆籃球達 10 個月 ( 懷孕) 
4. 接受皮鞭抽打達 48 小時 (生小孩) 
5. 10 個月不能喝冰水、咖啡、茶 
6. 5個月睡覺不能翻身 
7. 10 個月不能出遊遠行,不能跑跳 
8. 10個月不能生病,要不,生病不能吃藥 
9. 至育嬰室把屎把尿一個月 
10. 晚上睡覺每二個小時起床一次,清醒30 分鐘達一個月 

 
 

寫完上述
10 項,我覺得當娘的真不是人幹的。 
想起一個高中同學他說:有一次頂撞母親,父親把他從椅子上踹下來,斥責他: 
你媽是我捧在手心的寶,我呵護她,照顧她,對她輕聲細語,你憑什麼對他大小聲!!! 
我的同學再也不敢頂撞母親了。 

><~好感動,尤其是最後一句是經典。 
男人們丫,如果你們真的愛、疼你老婆(女朋友)記得這句話就夠了! 
老婆是拿來疼的,所以千錯萬錯都是自己的錯,不服氣嗎?誰叫你當初追人家。 

當媽的如果听到老公這麼說,應該會很高興吧!男人要學著點...

Thursday, 23 October 2008

Strive to enter the rest

In this rat racing society, sometimes i became one of the rat. I forgot again and again that it is really futile to become the first in the race. Indeed, i am not able to and it takes a lot of time and energy to deal with it. 

I would go over and over again to think why do I have such results which I do not deserved rather than give thanks for the blessings. 
I would go over and over again to think why am I so not able to do my assignments rather than give thanks for being able to study abroad (which used to be unreachable, unspeakable dream)
I would go over and over again to think that my future is hopeless because I do not know what I want now rather than give thanks for the present. I have friends around me who are lovely, friends in different places in this world who concerns about me, friends who I can hang out with...)

Truly, knowing and believing is different. I had known to strive/labour/be diligently enter the rest, but I never realized it when I was not in rest. Thank God that He is able to pull me back and speak to me always in a loving way. I want to learn to enter the rest.